Maid of honor

A maid is someone's help, she is to have freedom of speech as the kids of the house. 

This will enable her to say whatever that is going on in your absence.

If you maltreat her, remember they might retaliate on the kids you left behind.

But most maid with kind heart will always cry it out with the kids behind the door.

Remember she's a special child that is born and carried nine months same way with your kids.

She's God's own image so whatever you do to her will return unto you in thousands fonds.

I want to use this media to thank those that are considerate, those that treat them as their own and being a parents to them. 

May Almighty God gives you unlimited grace.

Mmagrace care's and love you for being a maid of honor.

You Own not My Tomorrow

Aunty Amaka is newly married lady in a well know family, she lived comfortably, everything about her changed for good.

 It happens that Amaka gave birth to her first child' a big party was held to welcome her and the new baby.

She received much favour from friends and family' in fact whatever Amaka says is respected but gradually she has forgotten her background.

Mr. Anderson is Amaka father in-law a man known for his generosity for the poor and needy. He don't want to use his ear to hear the poor are being opposed in anyway.

Because Amaka has given birth she need a nanny or someone that will help to take care of her child. All the nanny they brought hardly stay unto two months the person will let because of Amaka attitude toward them remember no one knew the reason why this nanny resign not until a maid was brought from their village.

This is a girl child promised a life, her family was very happy and think they are fortune but neither did they know Is the beginning of the girl suffering.

When the maid comes they have to change everything about her to suit the environment only her name was exception.

She was treated like a princess at first that make the maid over loved the little child as if it were her blood.

This little child can't do without his maid Chioma. He’s used to her cos Chioma pampers he well.

I know you will be like where is Amaka’s husband, well his name is Mr. Charles but his known as Uncle because he took after his father's generosity so people calls him Uncle both young and old.

He is a business man that travelled from one country to the other' money is not his problem. Whatever Amaka needs is giving double with a note of appreciations for being a good wife to him.

Amaka felt she has landed because she birthed a son' she turned against Chioma her maid, Chioma was maltreated that made the community to murmur of her situation till it get to the ear of Mr. Anderson.

Mr. Anderson was very angry because people started to doubt if he is who they think he was or is he covering up. 

Amaka father's in-law called her to order but she has grown wings and Continue her bad attitude to Chioma her maid. 

If Chioma cried to come back home her poor family beg for her to stay because of material things forgotten that life is at stake.

Chioma was dealt with that made her to bleed her half death' at the moment Mr. Anderson and son went for a business trip that needed both attention.

He was called that Chioma is about to take her last breathe in the hand of Amaka his daughter in-law. 

That’s make Mr. Anderson to abandon everything about business to save a life cos Chioma is dear to him like a grand child.

Before he land back, he command the guard to take Chioma to his private Doctor and when he landed after arguing with Amaka he went straight to Chioma's family and spoke to them of adopting Chioma without him finishing the conversation they have given their consent.

Mr. Anderson adopted Chioma into their family and give her life she deserved

Amaka got shock of her life as Chioma has right of ownership and was never a maid again but Amaka sister's in-law, must be well respected and a Princess of Mr. Anderson empire world wide.

That why is titled: You Own not My Tomorrow.

 Author: mmagrace

Soyabean (baby's milk)

Gone are the days we wait to receive our salary before we can purchase babies food. Come on let me share with you amazing process to easy your stress.

SOYABEAN'S Powder: 

This is a nutrition mix with plaintain, groundnut and crayfish that is added to baby food' which serves as milk. Once your baby turn 6months immediately after exclusive Sayo is the answer.

Utersile to be needed

*Pot

* Spoon or turning garri (aka: Spatula)

* Sieve

* Bowl

* Tray

* Flying pan 

* Grinding machine/ mill

Where to buy soya beans:

* Buy your soyabean in the market where mostly food items are sold such as rice, beans, corn etc

Preparation Steps:

* Pick out the bad ones, stone and dirt from the soya beans. (That is the way we select beans before cooking)

* Fry your groundnut or buy already fried one from shop near you (it make it more creamer) #50 or #100 own is ok.

* Cut the peeled plaintain into thin flakes and bake to dry or sundry after cutting or use your frying pan to dry.

* Select your crayfish

Preparation Method:

There are two method in which soya beans can be made.

1. Wash, sieve immediately' in an empty pot stir_fry the soya beans the same way you

2. Fry groundnut till it turn slightly brown in color and can peel off as groundnut. (Once it can peel turn off the heat).

3. Spray in a tray to cool down a bit before taking to the grinding machine.

4. Take to grinder to crack the beans then remove the chaff for proper grinding with all the ingredients such as: (unripe plaintain, crayfish, groundnut etc.)

5. Allow to cool before storing in airtighten container 

6. your soya beans milk powder is ready.

NOte:

Soya beans powder is highly nutritcious that serves as supplement for babies, children and adult in making tea, pap, 

Processed drinks etc. 

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CLEANSER

This provide antibacterial properties that cleanse and detox our bodies to eliminate diseases, it also contains antioxidant which help detoxify our body by flushing out toxins from bloodstream. this eventually purifies the skin thereby preventing risk of developing skin problems.  

How to make onion cleanser for pimples, oil face, and dry skin, we will need the following:

1. Get one large bulb of Onions 

2. Get your knife

3. Blender or  grinding stone or mortal 

4. Sieve

Preparation:

• Take off onion skin and wash

• Cut the onion into piece

• shred it or use mortal or blender to blend it until is 90% watery  

• Empty it out into a bowl

• Separate the juice from the chaff by sieving it with a delicate fabric

• Transfer the juice to a bowl

How to apply it:

• Wash your face with clean water, 

• Get a spotless cotton bud or cotton wool and apply the onion juice all over your face 

• Wash it out after 30 minutes

NOTE: Do this twice a day for two (2) weeks 

INSTEAD OF STRESSING ON WHICH CREAM TO USE LIGHTING ON  DARK KNUCKLE'S

• Just get yourself turmeric powder 

• Mix with clean water

• Massage 2 times daily

• And you are good to go

SUNBURN 

This a skin damage from too much exposure to the the sun or as cream that is harsh to the skin which is made to use after shower at night to avoid get your skin burn. For instance most of the face cream out there are made to use at night and not day time to be free from damaging the skin.

FOR SUNBURN:

• Get turmeric powder

• Then add 1 tablespoon of turmeric powder

• then mix thoroughly 

• Use it to massage the dark circle on the affected area.

Weight Lose

Weight lose is a process of keeping a healthy life style, it does not require competing with one another. As we know body differs so the stages you are to under go will differs too. Never allow anyone to body shame you while you are the best of yourself. You own no one explanation cause you are specially and wonderfully made.

So, for you to start this journey you must be ready mentally and physically, this will help you know that you are yourself and you are doing it to impress no one but to fulfill your goal in healthy steps.

Another thing to consider is' if you have a friend that join you for both to encourage each other just be you and never worry that your friend lose more weight than you but bear it in mind that you are not in competition with anyone but to improve your healthy life styles.

You need to eat enough food, this will help you to stop all kind of process and fries food we buy out when we are hungry. In no account will you starve yourself or skip breakfast because you want to lose weight.

Drinking enough water help to keep you in shape and taking a can of water along when going out help's you to avoid soda that make you feel you are tasty of food but not known that your body  just require water for that moment.

Mostly i have seen many taking supper like two to three times at night, is not right. once you have your supper and you are satisfied and later you feel hungering, take two glass of water to see if you are tasty and if it persist then switch to fruit.

Note: Stay turn, i shall give steps on how to get back to shape even after pregnancy. follow me then we will be there gradually.

Depression

Depreciation: The unforeseen circumstances that makes one feels the world has crumble on and the feelings of taking away life which is most precious that comes along with different thought of good and bad moment. Stay strong and talk it over with someone.

Depression: Is a reaction to life that you never imagined would be yours. A reaction to stress and seeming inability to change your situation. Is an in acceptance of how things are or were. lack of self care and giving too much of yourself to others and lack of energy to take anymore of what life has for you. It is a deep sadness and regret. 

Depression: A process of being depress, a feeling that something is pressing you down but you can not know how to handle it. a condition which makes one feel out of space. It can also seen as some forces pressing one to do unimaginable things that that can lead one to early grave.

CAUSES OF DEPRESSION

1. LONELINESS: This comes as a result of ignoring someone evening when the person is trying hard to talk to you or gist as a love friends you both are but reverse is the case. Letting them be the only one that initiate conversation without your contribution, it lead to depression. Thereby makes her feels  unacceptable.

2. UNFORESEEN CIRCUMSTANCES: In life there are things that comes as shock, especially when you never expect it. This include death, lost of child, lost of properties and fear of failure and lot more.

3. OUT OF SPACE: Most people feel out of space espcially the women who think they are not sexy as they are now cause of child bearing and change in their body structure. If being pressurize in her look and her body changing, it will cause depression.

4. LIES: In a relationship always say the truth and apologies when you are wrong and not trying to use gift as most of Africa men does. please if you offend someone show remorse for your offense and not being proud cause you think you own it all.

HOW TO OVERCOME DEPRESSION

CONFINED: Speaking to a friend about your situation is not a bad ideal, you see all this relationship that advice you to hold on with your problem in you but they will still go about to talk it out with someone or friends in other to less their stress. you why cause you do same and save yourself from ing depress.

SKILL: Occupy your mind with something new that you will be busy with, this helps to take away harmful thought  that may come to you and you will be free from killing yourself and appreciate nature.

MAKE NEW FRIENDS: Try to make new friends that you will be free to discuss whatever with, do not always be in door go out and socialize, be free in other to take in a good air.

In all, depression can kill' it will make you feel the world has crumble but remember the good days in such a moment before the sadness. Life it's self is so precious to be taking. Believe me you can talk it out . Yes i know it hurt and hard to make the move. Forgive is the key and move on with your life.

My Date

Looking good is not spending all your income on hair, clothes and other expensive things you feel you don't have at hand but it has to do with what you have already has. all you need is to take care of your available stuff. 

Sometime in life you think you don't have enough clothes to stay home with' come on sweetheart who are you leaving those clothes in your ward-rope for, My dear go in there and shine on with it. it all your and you are to decide what to do with them. clothes use as home can also be used for outing once its need and presentable. 

Smell Nice on your Date

When going into date believe me you don't have to empty your pocket on your hair, wash that your hair  and give it a lovely pack it will help you have a calm mind, feel filled without thinking on your spending. This will help you focus on why you are there. then you should also know that going on date has nothing to do with take away (food), packing of friends but you trying to know if you are go to go with him, like know him/her genotype. 

you see this genotype has done more harm to people who choose to ignore it at the beginning and it mostly affect the lady most. Thinking you are in deep love has nothing to offer when this prompt out and you feel you can let go' cause of your relationship year. Is better to take a bold step out of such relationship then suffering your self and your unborn generation. That is why to know each other genotype before falling in love dearly.

Know When to Say No 

Relationship has to be sweet, understandable and not the other way round, you should not plead to be loved no matter what.Once you see signs of abusiveness in that your relationship' is good to quit than try to fix what has being his inner part cause he can not change' even after pretending to. If you ignore signs shown to you early before moving in, well be ready to die while allow other in with the fake of labeling illness on you. Choose wisely 

Speak Out When Necessary

Don't keep it to yourself alone even when you are warn to keep your relationship problem to yourself, try to speak to someone to less the bothering from your heart. Don't keep it all to yourself 

Age is Just a Number

know that is only few or real men believe in such quote and stick to it. If age is just a number base on you are the one to marry yourself (that's you as a lady to bring money to be married while he relax to wait upon his daily meal) my dear wait to receive your own special package' in whom you were made from with time you will have the reason to smile and not to cry.

MY GENOTYPE

It is very important to know your genotype and your blood group before deepen yourself into a relationship.

He mighty be nice, faithful and well respected both in and out but when we talk of marriage this (GENOTYPE) must be considered. 

Remember it mostly affect the women then the men in some aspect. If you choose to ignore it then get prepared for future suffering.

Do not be deceived when he said he cannot do without you that what ever the case mighty be, he will be there to support you' darling please don't agree to it neither help to save your unborn children from pain they do not deserve. 

So for you not to be heartbroken do the needful before is too late cos this has left so many lives shattered.

May this month be of blessings, correct every mistake and wrong decision we took knowing and unknowingly.